….for answering my questions.  You make the two sides feel more like a interweaving dance than a conflicting fight. You talked about the discovery of self with external and internal development, but how can you apply that concept to something more… a relationship. To use your analogy, what if Heisenberg wasn’t measuring an electron, but the strength, flexibility and resistance between two molecules. We cannot as easily escape the singularity of the “self” or, in my opinion, one’s soul,  as easily as an external bond with others. Thoughts?